The disciples suddenly realize that there has been something deeply wrong with their attitudes, something in opposition to the agenda of a Messiah who kept quiet about his accomplishments and miracles. So they stand around in the house in Capernaum, looking at their feet in shame. That’s right: shame, not fame.
Then Jesus sits down in his teacher’s seat, calls the 12 disciples, and says to them, "If anyone would be first, he must be last of all and servant of all." To be first you must be last, he insists; to be a star you must be a servant.
And to illustrate this countercultural career advice more clearly, Jesus takes a little child in his arms and says, "Whoever receives one such child in my name receives me, and whoever receives me receives not me but him who sent me."
The jaws of the disciples must have really hit the floor at this point, because in the first century a child was a non-person, a nonentity, a nobody. There is no reason for a little child to be close to a great teacher such as Jesus, or in the middle of a group of men. Children are to stay with the women and keep themselves out of the way, until they grow up and can start exercising some adult responsibilities.
Jesus is saying, "When you welcome a nobody, you welcome me. And when you welcome me, you welcome God. So if you want to be first in the kingdom of God, then you had better get used to being a child-welcoming servant of all people."
That’s what it means to be one with the Son … the Son of God.
Jesus is calling us to flip our usual attitudes toward greatness and honor and fame completely upside down. Our normal perspective is to look at life from the top down, giving our greatest attention to the people who have competed with one another and come out on top. We do this with dancers, singers, actors and artists, as well as with politicians and business leaders. We are drawn to their fame and are impressed by their talents and accomplishments.
But Jesus is saying, "No — change your perspective." Instead, he says, look at life from the bottom up and give your greatest attention to the people who have no fame. Focus on children, on single mothers, on dishwashers, on chambermaids, on the working poor, on the homeless. "Whoever welcomes one such child in my name welcomes me," says Jesus, "and whoever welcomes me" … welcomes God.
Our challenge is not to burn with the fire of 10 million stars. Instead, it is to act in such a way that we are one with the Son of God.
We do this whenever we treat people with the dignity they deserve, as people who are made in God’s image. In California, there is an annual March for Human Dignity, which includes an underwear drive for the homeless. Hundreds of volunteers collect thousands of pairs of underwear and socks for people served by the Los Angeles Mission.
"While many may look at this as something to joke about, we take it very seriously," says mission chairperson Herb Smith. "To us, and to our guests, respect is a very important subject. When we treat people with dignity, they begin the process of retaining their self-respect, and over time, that can result in recovery and self-sufficiency."
As weird as it sounds, as something that we take for granted, the gift of a clean pair of underwear can help a homeless person regain a sense of self-respect. It can be an important step in recovery and self-sufficiency. It’s a small but significant one — one that treats the people on our streets with the dignity they deserve.
To serve a homeless person is to serve Jesus, and to welcome such a brother or sister is to welcome the God who sent Jesus into the world. This bottom-up approach to greatness will never earn us fame or put us in the spotlight, but empowered by the Holy Spirit, it will move us ever closer to the light of God’s eternal kingdom.
We learn from this story that the only proper way to be first is to step back and be last, and from that lowly posture, serve others in everything we do. Becoming first by serving from a position of last is the very fabric of the new world our Lord brought to pass when he descended so very low, even to death on a cross, shedding the brilliance of the light of the glory of heaven, setting aside all his power, to assume the form of a servant, the Suffering Servant, reshaping the entire fabric of life on earth, transforming from selfish the ambition of fame to selfless serving and giving.
When the curtain rises in that kingdom, we’ll be surprised by whom we see on stage: the faithful servants of this world, people who served God and neighbor without ever drawing attention to themselves. By the grace of God through faith, there will be a place on that stage for us as well.
Hear again the words of Jesus, "If anyone would be first, he must be last of all and servant of all." Those words tell us how to live, how to win, and the way to be one with the Son for eternity. Amen.